Node.create() which has a compatible signature with Node.__init__()
takes in a single `children` argument rather than relying in unpacking
*args in Q.__init__() which calls Node.__init__().
In addition, we were often needing to unpack iterables into *args and
can instead pass a list direct to Node.create().
Subquery deconstruction support required implementing complex and
expensive equality rules for sql.Query objects for little benefit as
the latter cannot themselves be made deconstructible to their reference
to model classes.
Making Expression @deconstructible and not BaseExpression allows
interested parties to conform to the "expression" API even if they are
not deconstructible as it's only a requirement for expressions allowed
in Model fields and meta options (e.g. constraints, indexes).
Thanks Phillip Cutter for the report.
This also fixes a performance regression in bbf141bcdc.
